But that's ok.

I didn't say you ARE a man. I said you SOUND like one.

I also didn't say you don't have to attend to your appearance.

You SOUND like old women I know from the 50s and 60s who said women had to act a certain way to "catch a man" and if you didn't act this way, you'd end up alone...a cold sad spinster with a bunch of cats.

Women mostly no longer talk like this. Men do, however.

Nothing you said was new. Just very old outdated "advice." I don't want to have to "act" a certain way to get men. That it works for you, great. You can have all the men.