I don't seem to be able to get across to you what I took from your post so one more try before I give up.

All I was trying to point out is that women shouldn't have to try so hard to "catch a man" in this day and age. We don't have to "use sunscreen ladies!" to stay wrinkle free. We don't have to go along with jokes that are at our expense, etc.

I enjoy the company of intelligent, secure men who don't have to have a baby doll to be with.

And, having a man or not having a man is not how I define what "causes people to be happy." You're correct...I'm happy with myself. I don't need to work so hard to be "man friendly."