What to know about what you don’t know you know. #1: Intuition is very efficient—if you don't overthink it.
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but please be conscious of your gender use in sentences.
You used "himself" and then went to on to say she...it was confusing and I had to read it twice.
"For instance, a person who has been rejected by a love interest convinces "himself" that "she" rejected him because she did not share in his ideal of happiness (sour grapes), and also that her rejection is a blessing in disguise in that it has freed him to find a more suitable partner (sweet lemons)."
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