Instead of giving money to crooks and frauds, how about treating the mother of your children with respect and support. If she really is alienating the children, the best way to end it is by showing your children you're not what she claims. Or you can coerce your children to obey and be with you, spend their college funds fighting their mother, who brought them into this world, and make them think you are a big jerk who they can't wait to get away from when they grow up.

If you insist on going the PA route, Susan Heitler. She likens alienators to the Iranian regime. A total whack job.