I was so not surprised to find that the author of this article was a man. I feel like he was belittling the thoughts and feelings of the woman writing in, moreso trying to justify why it's "OK" for men to use porn. And comparing a woman watching CSI to a man watching porn??? Give me a break.... yes because CSI causes many a partner to be crippled with self doubt and lose intimacy in their relationships....This guy is delusional.