Don't take it personal. Look up the Coolidge effect. Males are wired to desire variety and be excited by variety. Marriage is a man-made and unnatural construct. Porn provides the variety that men are wired to desire. Look at the stats, marriage is declining because it is an unnatural fit for our biology. Women are literally asking men to go against their biology and to be ashamed of it. Every woman who takes offense to porn use refuses to accept that men are intentionally designed to be different than women. A males mind is supposed to reward the feeling of impregnating as many healthy women as possible.