Totally agree because I too lived that nightmare. My SO was having problems getting an erection and when he did, keeping it, He blamed stress at work, in life and so I didn't initiate sex because I didn't want to add to his "stress". I patiently waited and waited months for him to initiate but he wouldn't. Then I checked computer history....tons and tons of porn. I was crushed, felt humiliated and betrayed. That son of a bitch was jerking off to porn instead of having sex with me all of that time. Then when confronted he said that his body was changing...blah...blah..blah. Fuck you, you didn't have a problem getting a hard on and jerking off to porn you asshole didn't you!! I never trusted him again...ever. He will probably die alone, jerking it to porn, asshole. Porn is cancer to relationships.