You are so right! Marty is a cover up, excuse maker, and pardoner to the ravages porn creates. Marty is out of touch. But probably he is very much in touch with porn to have ever written his article. I feel your pain. I know your pain. I live your pain. You have said it all. You are not alone. But that doesnt help the situation one darn bit and i know that. But I'll be damned to let Marty off on this ridiculous article. Lives and relationships are RUINED BY PORN USE. PERIOD.