There are many victims. It is not a child vs. dad or mom. The child is and so is the parent. Including the alienator. They all suffer. We are too obsessed with winner and loser. When PAS happens the whole family suffers. Grandparents suffer. Imagine the dad running a business. When he breaksdown his business goes down. His employees suffer. The harm is extensive. We got to stop PAS and stop worrying about he vs. she or kid vs. parent.