Rape is a horrific, violent crime. Lying to get somebody to date and/or be intimate with you isn't nice, but it isn't a violent crime. Since one doesn't need to have a physical advantage to lie to somebody, both genders would be equally eligible to be accused of this. It would be interesting to see how the proponents of these laws would react to women being sent to prison for a violent crime simply for lying about being single, birth control, etc.