Hate speech doesn't hurt anybody. The hurt only comes from how someone reacts to speech:

“It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”

“Any person capable of angering you becomes your master;
he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him.”

Epictetus

“You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.”

“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”

Marcus Aurelius

Call me anything you want, just don't call me late for supper...