I would ask if you all ever planned on actually taking some personal responsibility for yourselves and your obviously, deeply unfulfilling situations, but we all know the answer to that. Nothing says "Beta male" quite like blaming women and "weak men" for all your problems. Look in the mirror... You are the weak, helpless, resentful manchildren that you love to complain about on internet forums. Maybe spend less time "learning to code" and more time learning how to adult.