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Thanks for your thoughts, Kesther. Yeah, there's a lot of low-hanging fruit out there that makes it easy to want to throw out the baby with the bathwater. Here's my take, FWIW: It's inconceivable that there's not more to this world than seems apparent. "Woo" seems to be built into the universe. I think the mystery is bigger than what we can easily capture with our limited minds and sensory apparatus.
And yet, our material minds want to materialize the mystery and make it into something concrete and specific, or even commodifiable.
So ironically, some of the most "woo" people have a very materialist perspective, making claims that are verifiably false. That's where the BS comes in, and makes it easy for debunkers to debunk, because a lot of it is bunk!
It might be helpful to remember that the ego will deny anything that isn't made of ego, and those who are powerfully identified with the limits of their material existence will argue forcefully against anything non-material. I certainly have.
In the end, who cares what other people say or think? I know that's easier said than done—letting go of the caring—but it's your life and you get to decide what you make of it.
Thanks for commenting!
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