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Dude, I'm not making this up. I'm what you might call a "Stacy" and I am telling you from personal experience that I have dated guys who were totally ugly (and not rich either!). There was one guy I literally described to my friend as a "gargoyle" when I first met him -- he was that ugly -- but by the end of the night, I was in his bed because he was amazing, funny, brilliant, talented -- but definitely not hot! It didn't matter; he became hot to me because of his personality. And the best-looking guys I've ever dated ended up being so boring that I became unable to see how attractive I once thought they were.
I'm a real woman telling you about true experiences, and most women can tell you similar stories from their experiences. Stop placing all of these limits on yourself and go meet some women in real life, in a no-pressure situation where they can see your personality.
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