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Im sure more will comment on the intricacies of a li/mi because I think this is very common dynamic. both sides will manipulate for the other to stay, but only on their own terms or you suffer their anger, frustration, depression etc.
best is to walk away, not cut off, and asses your needs more thoroughly.
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